I’m not one for making new year’s resolutions. Perhaps it’s the knowledge that there’s a really good chance I’d be setting myself up for failure, or perhaps it’s the fact that I make resolutions and goals for myself all year long, but I’ve never really jumped on the resolutions bandwagon. I do, however, love the reflection, reevaluation, and goal-making that comes with beginning a brand new year. Many have chosen a single word on which to focus; “one little word” to guide their year. As Ali Edwards explains on her blog:
“The premise is simple – choose a word to invite into your life for the coming year. You live with it. You let it speak to you. You might even follow where it leads. There are so many possibilities and no right or wrong way to approach the adventure.”
Last year, I chose “balance” as the word to guide my year. It’s hard for me to move my focus in another direction, since I know from the depths of my soul that balance is still very much at the top of my goals list, and most likely will always be there. In reflecting over the past year, I think I did a really great job of balancing quilting with family, friends, and the rest of life, at least up until the last couple of months. Toward the end of the year, I let my excitement at my success at making time to sew despite my full plate bubble over, and I bit off more than I could chew. I’m still floundering to get caught up so that I can feel that refreshed new year, new start feeling. I’ll get there.
With all of that in mind, I’ve finally settled on a word to guide my 2016: nurture.
Even beyond the obvious–the nurture of my three kids–this word is one that I hope will guide my year in a positive way on all levels. Yes, I will aim to care for and encourage the growth and development of my children first and foremost. That almost goes without saying. But I will also use this word to guide other areas of my life:
- My relationship with my husband–so easy to let slide as our family grows
- My family as a whole–family fun time all together!
- Myself–making time for self-care IS essential
- Relationships with friends–mommy playdates even when the kids are in school soothes my soul
- My piecing skills–I want to master curves, and always keep learning
- My quilting skills–more free motion quilting practice, hand quilting, stretching my quilting style
- My handwork–I want to sew all the things! embroidery, visible mending, applique, sashiko…
- My creativity–regularly sketching and developing new patterns helps exercise my creative mind
- Quilting community–I love this community and want to continue to share inspiration, ideas, and creativity with you. YOU nurture me!
- The business side of quilting–finding a balance of business commitments that nurtures my creativity while staying true to my ideals and working toward my goals
- The garden–I let the garden go last year because of Finn’s birth, but this year I want to nourish our bodies with homegrown food again
I suppose it’s a good thing that my biggest problem is wanting to say yes to everything, and wanting to create even half of the ideas that inspire me. But balance is key. This year, I hope to let NURTURE guide my creative, personal, family, and business decisions and continue to let my creativity shine.
I’ve been letting my blogging slide a bit so far this year, but plan to get back into the rhythm of sharing inspiration here. As I mentioned above, I bit off more than I could chew at the end of last year, so I’m still working hard to catch up and meet some final deadlines. I miss you, and will share more soon! Thank you for following along with my creative process, and I look forward to many inspiring conversations in the year ahead! May this blog help nurture your creativity as well!
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